Audiences really want to like you as a speaker. It makes them feel better about being there in the first place and more forgiving of any stumbles you may make.
Help them like you by not talking at an audience. Have a conversation with them instead.
Your message comes across more effectively when you use words, rhythms and anecdotes that come authentically (or, at least, appear to come authentically) from you and your own experiences, not those of someone else.
Your tone of voice, your mannerisms, the very words you use can convey a sense that your audience is important to you and that you appreciate their time and effort to hear what you have to say.
For instance, avoid big words (especially the technical kind) you normally wouldn’t use in casual discussions.
Forget the lofty quotes if they would seem out of character.
Stay in character.
If you use your hands when explaining something to a colleague in person, why not use your hands when explaining a topic to an audience?
If you smile when you talk with your friends, why not smile when you speak to your audience?
It will help your delivery feel more natural to you, and thus to them.
You are not a robot. You are a person talking with other people. Always remember that. Because your audience never forgets it.
Really enjoyed your oveviews.
Posted by: Steven Imlay | March 18, 2005 at 07:49 AM